27 November 2010 @ 11:32 am
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It's quite funny to see how someone who preaches about professional behavior when moderating communities blocks me, preventing me to send her messages on livejournal. Isn't a moderator supposed to always be possible to contact, and personal differences shouldn't affect the "professional behavior"? *snorts* Very professional, indeed. (And not only blocking me on personal journal but fanfiction journal, too? Those two should be kept separate, with even the tiniest amount of "professionalism".) Also, good to know that friendly advice, given the best intentions in mind, was taken as an attack and "end of friendship". Oh-kay. I thought it's better that a friend says those things instead of a total stranger, but apparently I was wrong.

Anyone else want to defriend me for having different opinions than you? Now would be an excellent change since hell, I am so fed up with that. The very definition of friendship is to be able to coexist even with different opinions and friends should be able to tell each other where they are at fault. If I do something wrong and act like a horrendous bitch, I expect you to tell me instead of smiling and nodding and pretending like I'm never at fault. Of course, I might not agree, that's human, but it's better to get things out in the open than then suddenly use them as a weapon.

I was going to make a happy, bouncy entry but right now I am just ... actually I don't know if I'm appalled or amused by this. I would say both. This kind of cowardice is impossible to take completely seriously.

This was mainly a vent, maybe I'll get to the mentioned happy entry later today. First, food.
 
 
mood: disappointed
 
 
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[identity profile] sick-pride.livejournal.com on November 27th, 2010 11:06 am (UTC)
-big strong hugs-
[identity profile] fonulyn.livejournal.com on November 27th, 2010 11:07 am (UTC)
*hugs back tight*

I'm fine though. I just can't get over how stupid and childish people are! And how two-faced, saying one thing and then acting totally different.

Or maybe I'm just being an incredible bitch XD
[identity profile] sick-pride.livejournal.com on November 27th, 2010 11:09 am (UTC)
you're not a bitch. you're anything but a bitch.

well, sometimes people act weird and I really dont get why.
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[identity profile] chivakaza.livejournal.com on November 27th, 2010 11:41 am (UTC)
aaaaaaaaw WHAT THE HELL ?!

my reaction to this literally O_o
[identity profile] fonulyn.livejournal.com on November 27th, 2010 11:47 am (UTC)
*laughs* well that is quite a suitable reaction I think XD This feels kind of unreal.
[identity profile] daidetre.livejournal.com on November 27th, 2010 12:24 pm (UTC)
i have gifs for every occasion...
This was my reaction to reading this, courtesy of the lovely Noel Fielding:


No but seriously... that's really childish :/ Reaaaally childish.
Am I friends with this person btw? *shifty eyes*

Would you like Kyuhyun to avenge you? He'd be happy to do it.
Just look at the malice in those eyes. Our Korean army, HWAITING!
[identity profile] fonulyn.livejournal.com on November 27th, 2010 12:35 pm (UTC)
I love that XD
That is a pretty accurate gif x)
The worst thing is how I got a lecture for how it's important to be professional and then the next moment she does this! And are you really sure you wanna know?

Go go Kyuhyun! *cheers* He looks like he really enjoyed doing that! XD
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AND I FORGOT - [identity profile] fonulyn.livejournal.com on November 27th, 2010 04:56 pm (UTC) Expand
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[identity profile] seinen-no.livejournal.com on November 27th, 2010 03:51 pm (UTC)
Re: i have gifs for every occasion...
Oh god, if only one could solve everything with a frying pan like that x)
Re: i have gifs for every occasion... - [identity profile] daidetre.livejournal.com on November 27th, 2010 04:12 pm (UTC)
[identity profile] ravanna.livejournal.com on November 27th, 2010 12:48 pm (UTC)
*huggles you so, so tight* :/ I'm sooooo sorry to hear that, honey. Just - think of your friends; we're people loving you, never betraying you and listening to you.

Have some hot chocolate and try to keep smiling, won't you? ♥
[identity profile] fonulyn.livejournal.com on November 27th, 2010 12:51 pm (UTC)
*hugs back* Aw I know~ ♥ And I love you for it. I'm alright, really! I just needed to vent and rage so I'd get it out of my system XD

I will~ ♥ Am already smiling at least! ;)
[identity profile] fonulyn.livejournal.com on November 27th, 2010 03:43 pm (UTC)
And dear! I forgot x) What size should the headers be or you? I might manage to try making one or two but I lost the original message and don't remember how big they should be x)

And you said you'd like to see some Kuroshitsuji (is it spelled like that?) icons, but I'm afraid I have no pictures so if you'd want me to make and post some of those, you'd need to give me some pictures too XD Same with video games, basically I only have pics of RE4 *laughs* But I'll do some research, too.
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[identity profile] byoutekinaeiyuu.livejournal.com on November 27th, 2010 01:11 pm (UTC)

*hugs*
[identity profile] fonulyn.livejournal.com on November 27th, 2010 01:14 pm (UTC)
:) *hug*
[identity profile] oanja.livejournal.com on November 27th, 2010 01:12 pm (UTC)
Nuh... That sounds so weird to me. I guess there are perks to existing at the edges of fandom. =) But it's good to hear you didn't take what this person did too much into heart.
[identity profile] fonulyn.livejournal.com on November 27th, 2010 01:17 pm (UTC)
I'm just frustrated since just when I believe in mankind again I have to encounter this kind of idiocy! But then again, I guess it's good practice for my future job, which will be full of dealing with idiocy XD
[identity profile] scottskydweller.livejournal.com on November 27th, 2010 01:59 pm (UTC)
"The very definition of friendship is to be able to coexist even with different opinions and friends should be able to tell each other where they are at fault." --> totally agree to this... *thumbs up*


"If I do something wrong and act like a horrendous bitch, I expect you to tell me instead of smiling and nodding and pretending like I'm never at fault." --> to act as the latter, it is only the behavior of a superficial asshole. i'd rather be blunt than pretentious.

anyway, don't be affected too much. at least you know it now than later. *hugs*
[identity profile] fonulyn.livejournal.com on November 27th, 2010 02:05 pm (UTC)
Good to hear that :) I don't know if there's something in the air but lately it seems people can't take differing opinions at all!

That's a much better option. Especially when it's about friends. If it's a random acquaintance you meet once a year, it might be good to shut up and bear it to keep the peace but if it's a person you can classify as a "friend" you should aim for honesty!

*hugs back* Thanks :) I take it quite positively since at least now I know the truth!
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[identity profile] higeki-kiseki.livejournal.com on November 27th, 2010 03:20 pm (UTC)
Whoever that was is the bitch, not you. Cookies?
[identity profile] fonulyn.livejournal.com on November 27th, 2010 03:24 pm (UTC)
♥ Cookies is always a good option! :3
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[identity profile] seinen-no.livejournal.com on November 27th, 2010 04:02 pm (UTC)
I still am more amused than annoyed really. The sad thing is that she simply wasn't important enough for me to be too engaged in this. There are other people where it would have really made me sad or furious or at least regret everything that happened.

*hugs* C'mon, we DID have our fun with this too, eh?
[identity profile] fonulyn.livejournal.com on November 27th, 2010 04:04 pm (UTC)
This entry was my very initial reaction when I saw the message and the defriending messages and all XD I told you that at first I was pissed off. But right now? I think relief comes closest since it wasn't worth it.

*hugs back* True XD Ranting about it on msn was quite amusing eventually *laughs*
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[identity profile] songofcolour.livejournal.com on November 28th, 2010 03:43 pm (UTC)
Oh man... whatever happened, dear... I hope you can forget about it soon. I know these sort of things can stir you up BADLY, but it's never really worth it. Good that you got it out of your system, but I hope you can get in the mood for that happy entry very soon. :)

Always remember, the internet is full of morons... you cannot escape. *laughs* (Not that I know that person... I just realize it again and again...)
[identity profile] fonulyn.livejournal.com on November 28th, 2010 03:46 pm (UTC)
I'm not really taking it that badly, I was just really mad for a moment and now I think it's kind of amusing. I can't believe how childish people can be! And how stupid they are sometimes.

Thankfully I know so many awesome people too :D Makes it way worth it! ;D ♥
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[identity profile] kurenai-tenshi.livejournal.com on November 29th, 2010 04:26 am (UTC)
*hugs* Are you okay now? sorry, I spent last week barely with any internet access @___@

Pft.... I agree with you. being friends don't meant that we have to agree to EVERYTHING. That'll be boooooring. In fact, me & my best friend have many different opinion & way of thinking, but that's exactly the strongest point of our friendship.
[identity profile] fonulyn.livejournal.com on November 29th, 2010 03:34 pm (UTC)
*hugs back* I'm alright, no worries :) I just needed a vent and had to complain about this idiocy somewhere XD It already helped to get it out!

Exactly! I mean, of course some common interests and opinions make it easier to become friends and grow a friendship, but it's not like there can't be any differences! And I'd rather hear about my flaws/irrational behavior from friends than from strangers :/
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