14 January 2009 @ 05:17 pm
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I saw this in [livejournal.com profile] scottskydweller's journal, and I'm posting it here too since it made me cry so much. It's the original text, I just copied and pasted.

I'm still crying, and I just can't stop. If you can spare a moment, please take it to read this.




Two Choices

What would you do?... you make the choice. Don't look for a punch line, there isn't one. Read it anyway. My question is: Would you have made the same choice?

At a fundraising dinner for a school that serves children with learning disabilities, the father of one of the students delivered a speech that would never be forgotten by all who attended. After extolling the school and its dedicated staff, he offered a question:

"When not interfered with by outside influences, everything nature does, is done with perfection.

Yet my son, Shay, cannot learn things as other children do. He cannot understand things as other children do.

Where is the natural order of things in my son?"

The audience was stilled by the query.

The father continued... "I believe that when a child like Shay, who was mentally and physically disabled comes into the world, an opportunity to realize true human nature presents itself, and it comes in the way other people treat that child."

Then he told the following story:

Shay and I had walked past a park where some boys Shay knew were playing baseball. Shay asked, "Do you think they'll let me play?" I knew that most of the boys would not want someone like Shay on their team, but as a father I also understood that if my son were allowed to play, it would give him a much-needed sense of belonging and some confidence to be accepted by others in spite of his handicaps.

I approached one of the boys on the field and asked (not expecting much) if Shay could play. The boy looked around for guidance and said, "We're losing by six runs and the game is in the eighth inning. I guess he can be on our team and we'll try to put him in to bat in the ninth inning."

Shay struggled over to the team's bench and, with a broad smile, put on a team shirt. I watched with a small tear in my eye and warmth in my heart. The boys saw my joy at my son being accepted.

In the bottom of the eighth inning, Shay's team scored a few runs but was still behind by three.

In the top of the ninth inning, Shay put on a glove and played in the right field. Even though no hits came his way, he was obviously ecstatic just to be in the game and on the field, grinning from ear to ear as I waved to him from the stands.

In the bottom of the ninth inning, Shay's team scored again.

Now, with two outs and the bases loaded, the potential winning run was on base and Shay was scheduled to be next at bat.

At this juncture, do they let Shay bat and give away their chance to win the game?

Surprisingly, Shay was given the bat. Everyone knew that a hit was all but impossible because Shay didn't even know how to hold the bat properly, much less connect with the ball.

However, as Shay stepped up to the plate, the pitcher, recognizing that the other team was putting winning aside for this moment in Shay's life, moved in a few steps to lob the ball in softly so Shay could at least make contact.

The first pitch came and Shay swung clumsily and missed.

The pitcher again took a few steps forward to toss the ball softly towards Shay.

As the pitch came in, Shay swung at the ball and hit a slow ground ball right back to the pitcher.

The game would now be over.

The pitcher picked up the soft grounder and could have easily thrown the ball to the first baseman.

Shay would have been out and that would have been the end of the game.

Instead, the pitcher threw the ball right over the first baseman's head, out of reach of all team mates.

Everyone from the stands and both teams started yelling, "Shay, run to first! Run to first!"

Never in his life had Shay ever run that far, but he made it to first base.

He scampered down the baseline, wide-eyed and startled.

Everyone yelled, "Run to second, run to second!"

Catching his breath, Shay awkwardly ran towards second, gleaming and struggling to make it to the base.

By the time Shay rounded towards second base, the right fielder had the ball. The smallest guy on their team who now had his first chance to be the hero for his team.

He could have thrown the ball to the second-baseman for the tag, but he understood the pitcher's intentions so he, too, intentionally threw the ball high and far over the third-baseman's head.

Shay ran toward third base deliriously as the runners ahead of him circled the bases toward home.

All were screaming, "Shay, Shay, Shay, all the Way Shay"

Shay reached third base because the opposing shortstop ran to help him by turning him in the direction of third base, and shouted, "Run to third! Shay, run to third!"

As Shay rounded third, the boys from both teams, and the spectators, were on their feet screaming, "Shay, run home! Run home!"

Shay ran to home, stepped on the plate, and was cheered as the hero who hit the grand slam and won the game for his team

"That day", said the father softly with tears now rolling down his face, "the boys from both teams helped bring a piece of true love and humanity into this world."

Shay didn't make it to another summer. He died that winter, having never forgotten being the hero and making me so happy, and coming home and seeing his Mother tearfully embrace her little hero of the day!


AND NOW A LITTLE FOOT NOTE TO THIS STORY:

We all send thousands of jokes through the e-mail without a second thought, but when it comes to sending messages about life choices, people hesitate.

The crude, vulgar, and often obscene pass freely through cyberspace, but public discussion about decency is too often suppressed in our schools and workplaces.

If you're thinking about forwarding this message, chances are that you're probably sorting out the people in your address book who aren't the "appropriate" ones to receive this type of message. Well, the person who sent you this believes that we all can make a difference.

We all have thousands of opportunities every single day to help realize the "natural order of things".

So many seemingly trivial interactions between two people present us with a choice:

Do we pass along a little spark of love and humanity or do we pass up those opportunities and leave the world a little bit colder in the process?

A wise man once said every society is judged by how it treats its least fortunate amongst them.

You now have two choices:
1. Delete
2. Forward

May your day, be a Shay Day.


It's public too. The more people see it the better.
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dooropener: scotland[identity profile] dooropener.livejournal.com on January 14th, 2009 03:35 pm (UTC)
no you made me cry even in the office...
[identity profile] fonulyn.livejournal.com on January 14th, 2009 03:38 pm (UTC)
I'm still crying and it was already a bit longer ago when I read it! It's so touching.
[identity profile] pi-ankh.livejournal.com on January 14th, 2009 04:17 pm (UTC)
I just read it from [livejournal.com profile] seinen_no's journal and it made me cry too. It's wonderful to see that there still is empathy and caring in this world. It's the little things that matter in the end. *in tears*
[identity profile] fonulyn.livejournal.com on January 14th, 2009 04:19 pm (UTC)
You're so right. I'm glad that people still do care. And damn I'm still crying when I think of it.
[identity profile] silverdemon88.livejournal.com on January 14th, 2009 09:37 pm (UTC)
I'm crying.

I would have loved to see his face playing baseball...

...I wish there were more people that accepted others like that. I really do....
[identity profile] fonulyn.livejournal.com on January 16th, 2009 03:15 pm (UTC)
I think it's a really lovely story, and it shows us something about being human. I just wish more people would read it.
[identity profile] silverdemon88.livejournal.com on January 16th, 2009 06:07 pm (UTC)
Even though its from a book, its still lovely.
[identity profile] hara-reita.livejournal.com on February 1st, 2009 02:52 pm (UTC)
This made me cry...
A good cry. Sometimes our tears give us strength. Not sometimes, always.
Tears of happiness and tears of sadness, I guess that's what happened in that text...
It's such a pity that there's not a lot of people with good heart to let someone like Shay play in a team, even just for a second. But some golden hearts agreed on letting in play. Making his father cry from happiness and making his son grinned of, obviously, happiness.
Shay may have died, but he will still alive in people's heart. They'll remember him and he'll not die.

[sorry if my English is so bad, but this seriously made me cry and I thought I had to say this]
[identity profile] fonulyn.livejournal.com on February 1st, 2009 03:13 pm (UTC)
I'm actually happy to hear that it made you cry, since I think that it's a good thing with this. It touched me too, really, and I was crying like a baby when I first read it. Even now, re-reading it makes me cry. I really wish more people would act like the kids in this one.

Thank you for reading :) And don't worry, your English is perfectly alright!
[identity profile] hara-reita.livejournal.com on February 1st, 2009 03:38 pm (UTC)
Yes, I've just read it again... And made me cry again.
I'm thinking about to translate this story into Portuguese and write that in my graphic diary to show tomorrow, or this week, to my class.
And I'll just show this to my best friend, once she's back.
[identity profile] fonulyn.livejournal.com on February 1st, 2009 04:14 pm (UTC)
Oh but that sounds like a really lovely thing to do :) Spreading this can only be a good thing!
[identity profile] hara-reita.livejournal.com on February 1st, 2009 04:50 pm (UTC)
Yes, it is! I think it's a good way to... How can I say... Open people's feelings.

I'm thinking about posting that story into my journal! So in that way more people will read it ^^
[identity profile] fonulyn.livejournal.com on February 2nd, 2009 10:50 am (UTC)
Exactly. It's something to make you think :) I'm glad it touched you!
[identity profile] shattered-jouka.livejournal.com on March 12th, 2009 06:26 am (UTC)
gah, i'm at work and i'm crying, truly heart moving. thanks for sharing
[identity profile] fonulyn.livejournal.com on March 12th, 2009 10:11 am (UTC)
No problem at all. I'm glad that you read and that it moved you :)
[identity profile] rheakurokawa.livejournal.com on April 24th, 2009 01:18 pm (UTC)
i'm crying. and forwarding.
[identity profile] fonulyn.livejournal.com on April 24th, 2009 01:49 pm (UTC)
That's good to hear :) I think it's truly a moving story.