True, true. Yeah, unfortunately it is very highly unlikely that Han Geng will come back, and I almost hope he won't, for his own sake. So yeah, unless Kibum finally fucks off for good and HenMi join the main group, those fans can keep hanging onto a number like blind fools and ignore the feelings of the people behind those numbers.

Yeah, it's pretty much just the stereotypics speaking. Then again, nowadays it's sort of turning into this... Like, if someone is a stereotypical homosexual, people will be all "but he's just fashionable and takes care of himself!!" and it's almost as if it's criminal to even assume that someone like Zhou Mi is gay, even though the stereotypics exist for a reason. Many people who seem like stereotypical homosexuals are gay, but yes, not all x) Zhou Mi is too nice to kill Kyuhyun, no matter what he says XD If it's a gay relationship, there is no woman and man in the relationship, yeah x) They are! Even when some fic is rated nc-17 I feel like I sometimes get pretty bored with the sex scenes since they can get like that (haha, no I haven't, sorry XD).

I feel the same way. I think he's dominant enough to keep Kyuhyun in the line and take the lead in their relationship but not like overtly so. Yeah, but I think it's just because people find it a turn on, someone turning out to be the complete opposite of their usual self in the bedroom *laughs* It was meant to be funny XD That happens too, yes XD You know, we could write so many cliche crack fics it's not even funny anymore. OKAY, I WILL READ IT D:

Yeah, but you know, what would you expect when the other one is an Only13 and the other was just getting into SJ too. Qmi is way more plausible than any of those and I'm not being delusional either XD I always say no one should get all bitchy over pairings but I hate KyuMin too, so much D: Mostly because of the shippers who annoy the fuck outta me, but still. EunHae is bearable, but eh. I'm on the same line with HanChul, even if they used to be my OTP. Yeah, I think it's just for fun with them XD

Pfft, okay then XD

Honestly, I'd say that the probability of Geng coming back is as high as me growing wings and being able to fly. He's not coming back, not now when he's doing fine with his own career and with the way he was treated. I'm just kinda afraid others will follow the example and go too :/

True x) It's so weird! Some people think being homosexual is somehow better than being heterosexual, too. While I can't see what the difference is (except, you know, the obvious XD). What people like to do inside their bedroom is their own business as long as it's not illegal and hurting someone. Zhou Mi is too nice to kill a fly XD But he has other ways to punish Kyuhyun I'm sure 8D True x) Sometimes she just repeats herself way too much. (Me and my brother wanted to watch the Biker Mice From Mars but we couldn't get the VHS player working so we watched French soft porn on TV XD it was bad)

He knows how to do it, of course he can play Kyuhyun as he wishes XD He's a clever person! I guess so, but I think it turns kind of boring eventually x) Besides, the Dir en grey fandom is (or was XD) full of that kind of thinking too so it's EVERYWHERE. We could, and I kinda wanna write one huge cliche fic with everything squeezed into it *laughs* AND YOU'D BETTER LIKE IT TOO >:(

haha true, true. Thankfully I was introduced to the group by someone who isn't an only13 at all. She knew she'd get me hooked just by flashing a few smiley pictures of Mi XD I try to be tolerant and like as many pairs as I can but some ...are just not for me. And Kyumin is one of those.

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I agree with you. He was getting so sick under SME, he was treated so badly, and if he came back, SME would treat him even worse. It's better for him this way, being able to do things his way and be healthy. Mm, yes, that's true :/ But I think they just redid their contracts? Or at least they said they would. I don't know.

Oh yes, I've seen that too! Sometimes it just goes that way with defending minority groups, that suddenly they are lifted above people not inside that group. Or you know, I can't really explain it, but you know. Yeah, I don't think there is a difference, we're all people. Yeah, I pretty much roll with that too, I think things are okay as long as neither (or no one) is being hurt and both are equal in the relationship and all. He's too scared of bugs to probably kill any kind of a creepy crawly XD Oh yes, I'm sure of that too 8D I think a lot of authors fall for that, getting stuck in their style x) Even though they are good, it's just all the same, which is unfortunate. (Oh, okay then XD I believe you XD)

Haha, true XD It does, yeah, and sometimes it's really over the top x) You're right, yeah. That just reminds me of the crack fic I told you about in Paris XD With every possible thing stuffed in one. I WILL, I PROMISE D:

I was sort of introduced to them as "13+2", I guess. So at first, I kept calling them "Henry and Zhou Mi of SJM" but once I got to know them better, I started thinking of them as members of SJ. I don't think I could have been an only, even if my friend had pushed it on me. It's not in me to hate people for petty reasons like that. And Henry stole my heart almost immediately anyways, so XD Some pairings just don't go down with me either. Idk, I think I could read Kyumin as a side pairing or something, just generally tolerate them even though I just ship their bromance a ton, but the shippers have made me loathe the pairing so much I will read nothing that has KyuMin even as a hinted pairing. And all Kyuhyun and Mimi pairings that aren't Qmi, Kyury or Mimin are also kind of no no.

It is better for him yes. Even if I do miss him awfully lot sometimes when I see old pictures or videos and know he's not coming back :( I don't know, and I don't think they'll go anywhere, except for maybe... Kibum? x)

That's annoying too. My brother always says that he isn't a homophobe, he's a homofanphobe since he hates it when some people think gays are miles above heteros. I have some friends like that, actually, who think a romance is beautiful if it's two men in it but otherwise no and I'm always all "o___O WHY" since I think love is beautiful no matter what. Gosh I think I'm stuck in the same way to write too and I probably write the same crappy thing over and over again but... I don't know any better :(

haha I remember the crack fic and I had such troubles trying to keep up with the plot while you explained it XD I don't think I'd do anything THAT epic (and confusing) but some kind of a crack fic would be fun x) YAY! 8D I made like... a dozen gengmi icons today 8D *shows one off*

I think it shows something about a person when they don't hate those two just based on something stupid like that. We're good people XD I don't read even hinted Kyumin either, unless it turns into Qmi when I might be able to get through it x) You know my love for Geng/Mi XD Otherwise I agree.

I miss him too, especially after I watched EHB and some SJ Full House :( He is such a wonderful person and he fit SJ so well, I hate it that SME had to go and ruin it for everyone. Yeah, Kibum is a mystery since no one knows if he really will be a part of their 5th album. I don't know. I really like him but I'm sort of starting to get annoyed. He's been gone so fucking long, if he doesn't come back this year, when? I do love him, but I'm losing my faith in him :(

Oh yes! Actually, especially in this whole Japan fandom I was in actively, I saw so many of these annoying teenage girls who were all "boylove <33 ^^" and somehow they were, you know. Homo fans. They are the people who read any manga, if it had BL in it, no matter how shitty it was and would be all "awwww boy love is so cute ^_^" and tbh, I find it infuriating. Hey, I'm not straight and I write slash but I still find it annoying how some people think homosexuality is "cute" and somehow better than heterosexuality. And with most of those girls, they just think boys kissing is sooo cute but if it's girls doing the same, it's not. I even once at this forum saw some girl commenting "I don't understand why old people are gay, it's gross :( They should just be gay when they're young and cute and then become straight when they are older :P" and it was one of those moments when I really wanted to break someone's nose. Those kind of people who just fangirl cute boys kissing but gag when there's two older men or women holding hands or something are repulsive and aren't supporting gay rights in any way. Sexuality is not a trend, it doesn't make you a better person. It's just a part of who you are, and it angers me that some people don't see that. There are good straight people, there are bad gay people. Your sexuality doesn't make you the person you are. If you say "love is love", then stand behind that statement and don't just say "boys kissing is cute", but "all love, man/woman, woman/woman, man/man, whatever you identify as, is beautiful". Argh, this subject just makes me so angry XD But you don't, you have a very verifying style! You most definitely don't write the same thing over and over again, trust me :)

I had trouble keeping up with it even when I read it XD It would, yeah x) Oh, that's nice 8D

It's nice to be a good person XD Same here, I just can't stand Kyumin, really x) Haha, true XD

I still didn't watch EHB and FUll House XD Everyone keeps on recommending them but ...I dunno. I should! And I want to but yeah. Somehow it didn't happen. SME seems like such a nazi-place. I have no other words for it :/ Kibum is just... I don't know. Gone? Is it that he doesn't have any interest in it or is it that he was gone so long it now is like he's not really a part of things and it feels weird? I don't know. But it annoys me too and he should either leave for good or come back. This isn't good for anyone, this waiting and going back and forth.

Oh exactly like that! These homofans are so annoying and they make everyone look back. Like, if I say I read a gay romance novel people instantly assume I'm one of those annoying teens who read/like it because it's in fashion or something. While that's not it. I read straight romance as well as gay romance (not in fanfics though, never liked hetfic XD). AND OLD PEOPLE IN LOVE IS SO SWEET. Seriously, if they managed to stick together through thick and thin, through everything life threw at them, it's beautiful. No matter if it's a straight couple, a man-man couple or a woman-woman couple. And old people need love as much as everyone else does! You're so right. Your sexuality does not define who you are. In the same vein, I don't know if I already complained about it before but it annoys me when some people write in their livejournal profiles in huge blinking letters "I AM GAY" and that's the first thing you know about them. I always go all "...so what?" at that. It's not like this is some sort of a dating-service where people need to know your preferences before they know your name.

I can imagine! XD I am kind of proud of it :D It's my favorite of the ones I made. Here's another 8D

haha yes. We're so good.